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Jun 06

The Buck Stops Here

Are you a “victim”, or are you taking responsibility for your life?  So many of us think we are taking responsibility for our own lives when we simply are not.  The “victim” mentality is very subtle and takes many forms.

Once you understand the concepts you will better understand the dynamics of handling your fears.

If you are in a job you hate, if you’re single and you want to be married, if you’re in a lousy relationship and want to get out, if (generally speaking) nothing seems to go the way you want it to go, you are playing the role of the victim.

No wonder you feel fearful – victims are powerless!

The truth is you really are in control – total control.

For some reason you are consciously or unconsciously choosing to be in that lousy job, you are choosing to hate the single life, you are choosing to stay in a destructive relationship, you are choosing to sabotage anything good in your life … or whatever else it may be for you.

It is very upsetting when you begin to see yourself as your own worst enemy.  On the other hand, this realisation is your biggest blessing.  If you realise you can choose your misery it means you then realise you can choose your joy.

Take back your control today – email shan@centrefieldcoaching.com.au or call +61 2 4333 8908

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Information inspired by Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway – Susan Jeffers